Thoughts from July

It has only very recently occurred to me that the power women have in relationships decreases as the years tick by. It is something that hadn't even registered in my mind until a couple of MARRIED men became interested in me.

Before I move on I would just like to say that 'ladies' NEVER date married men. It is morally wrong to break up a marriage or any type of relationship. It is also common knowledge that married men rarely leave their wives for 'the other woman'. The only successful people at breaking up marriages are 'uber crazy manipulative bitches.' If your ever interested just think how you would feel if your husband cheated on you with someone half your age.

Moving on, this week I had 3 married men interested in going out. Married men are either looking for 1) A slut or 2) Someone like their wife who will pay them attention. Now I would never date a married man but after talking to a few of them it seems they all have the same story.

"My wife (who he still loves) has just had a baby and no longer pays me any attention."

When I heard this story the first time I thought it was rubbish. The second time I thought it was a coincidence. The third time I heard it I decided that there must be 'some' truth to the tale.

As ladies I truly believe that we can learn from this example. It is awful that these men hit on young women when they are married. We need to realize that these situations can happen so easily so we need to learn to prevent them. My grandmother gave me this advice which I believe is the best advice a girl could hear when she is young.

"When you get married work part-time or not at all. Make sure you give your husband

1. Lots of sex (otherwise he will find sex another way)

2. Lots of kisses, cuddles and love

3. When he comes home from work give him a cool drink and ask him what happened during his day.

4. Praise him for all his hard work. (Men love to hear that they are working hard to support the family)"

Evelyn.