What do men want?

Dear Ladies,

Many women don't realise that a lady has more power over who they date than the 'modern sexy woman.' These 'sexy' woman think that they can ask any man out. They also believe that these relationships will work out. Lets be honest, men will dump these women.

But what do men really want in a girlfriend? Lets start with what they don't want in a girlfriend.

1. Threatening women- these women threaten their manhood. Men want to be the rescuer so they don't want someone who doesn't need them. (You don't have to actually need rescuing, just appear to.)

2. Sluts- Men are happy to sleep with these women but will NEVER commit to them. NEVER sleep with a man on the first date. Wait at LEAST 2 months.

3. Women who dress like men- Men don't want to be going out with a man. Make sure you wear skirts and dresses all the time.

4. Stressed out women- Men have enough troubles in their working lives to worry about their girlfriends problems. You want to be a pleasure to be with not a burden.

What do men want in a girlfriend?

1. Women who are aesthetically pleasing- always dress well. Even if you are not the prettiest girl you can make yourself look good by dressing up. Never leave the house without make up, a pretty dress, shoes and a matching handbag.

2. Someone intelligent- men want to be able to talk to you. They also want someone they can show off to their co-workers, friends and family. Acting dumb is not the way to go. Follow what he is doing. Eg. If he is an investment banker read the Financial news. If he is a doctor, research the latest medical breakthroughs. If he is a plumber, read about the latest plumbing gadgets.

3. Someone with their own friends and life- this is just ensures that you are not too needy.

4. A happy and adventurous woman- Make sure that you are happy when you are around him. Men go weak at the knees for happy, smiling women. These women are infectious and men want to be around them all day.

Evelyn.