Primary steps to being asked out

Women often ask me 'how do you get asked out by so many wonderful men?' Firstly ladies I decided to develop some standards of my own.

My standards are
1. I only go out with Doctors, Lawyers and Business Men
2. I only go out with men who have conservative values
3. I only go out with men from good families

I would just like to reiterate, just because these are my standards they are not yours. Please work out your own standards. Also ensure that your standards are realistic. Not everyone can get the doctor or lawyer.

After you have developed your standards decide which men in your life are dateable. If you don't know any men try to meet as many as you can to see who you think you like.

Write down 5 men who you are attracted and could go out with. Having 5 realistic options ensures that you get asked out by one of these men.

My biggest rule is to NEVER ASK OUT A MAN. You don't need to if you play your cards right. This is how you do it.

EXAMPLE SCENARIO-

You are at a cocktail party and your love interest is there too.

1. Don't immediatly say hello to him when you get there. Work the room, ensure you say hello to everyone and say hello to him last. (If you are not a confident person, pretend you are. You will be suprised with the results. I never was confident until I faked it, now it comes naturally.)
2. Smile.
3. Say hello to 'your interest'. Ask them questions, talk about THEM. Answer questions about yourself but direct the conversation back to them. People love talking about themselves. Travel is often a safe topic.
4. Tell 'your interest' that you have to get a drink and leave him alone.
5. Go and talk to his MALE friends without him. (or another attractive man) Talk to them for 10 minutes. This should make him jealous.
6. Walk somewhere in the room but make it very obvious to him via eye contact.
7. He should come over to you. If he doesn't you should assume he is gay and attend the next party!

Evelyn.